9 Weeks Away!

This is one of my favorite quotes from the beloved Father Gregory Boyle who founded Homeboy Industries in Los Angeles, the largest gang rehabilitation and re-entry program in the world.  When asked what keeps him going when he was interviewed on a podcast (listen to it here on your next commute- it's SO good!), he shared that he anchors himself in the present moment and delights in the person in front of him. This is not just a nice quote; it’s a profound practice born from over 35 years of working with gang members—an intentional way of seeing and being in the world.

This mindset has become a guiding mantra for me. It's certainly easier said than done given the many distractions in my life, but it's a posture I aspire to. It grounds me as I step into patient rooms as a chaplain, welcome guests into our home, connect with family, talk with our kids in college, work with students, spend time with Jason, and so much more. 

So, my prayer is that God would give you the grace in the remaining time in your internship this quarter and in the next nine weeks of wedding prep and on your wedding day to anchor yourself the best you can in the present moment and delight in the person in front of you. 


Cheering for you both in these rich and full days ahead... 

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